so Mel informed me that it had been way too long since i have posted anything on here. My apologies. Although I think that is mostly an apology for Mel and the Aussies + my sister and D who are the ones that usually read this. :-) Anyway I've been sick for the past week and am finally feeling better but for most of the week all I did was go to work, come home, eat dinner, maybe check my email and go to bed.
Mel told me I should write about something that would spark conversation. Boobs apparently has worked well for her ( it really has... check out her blog www.elementsofchaos.blogspot.com )
so here's what I have to say... it's something i've been thinking about and did a lot of thinking about today... here's my question... it's a "how do you?"
how do you...
tell you friend who, you are told loves you and adores you, that you REALLY like their ex?
how do you...
break this news to them when they are across the world from you?
how do you...
feel like you haven't betrayed their friendship when you already feel like you have?
how do you...
not feel like you've made liking him such a sticky situation that could result in bad feelings amongst no only you and the other two involved but amongst other friends?
how do you...
tell your friend you've kept this secret from them for two months and that they are possibly the last person to find out?
how do you...
know when it's the right time to tell them? and will you ever know?
how do you...
cope with the fact that this could all become a HUGE fucking mess and that things just won't be the same?
how do you...
not cry thinking about this and feeling like I have betrayed a friend by keeping this secret but can't help your feelings for the other?
how do you...
not think about the heartache and heartbreak this could cause?
and how do you...
deal with the feelings of your friends that this affects?
Ok so really i realize this is kind of a depressing one but it's what's been on my mind and it's something I could use a little bit of feedback on. I'm scared about this situation it makes my stomach flip thinking about some of the consequences and about the relationships.
cheers everyone.
-em
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Don't worry about the other people involved, it has very little to do with them in the long run and if they're smart enough they'll realise that and not take things to heart! (besides, they should be big enough and ugly enough to look after themselves when unavoidable circumstances pop up).
Things often may not be the same but they will all work out well in the end, it's a matter of perspective.
Also you should probably try and assess whether the big impact you're feeling is really as big as you think it is, just in case you have the wrong end of the stick!
Life is messy, and risks need to be taken in order to live it to the fullest. Have no regrets.
That's all I can say at the moment on most of these,
Love to you Em!
Love Mel =)
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